I live and work in very diverse cultures. In my job, my colleges are all white, or African American, most are women. The students are white, African American, Hispanic, Asian, and Russian. My neighborhood is primarily African American; however the community I live in is much more diverse including large populations of whites, African Americans, Asians, and Bosnians. My family is all Italian/Caucasian. With the exception of my family, I find that my communication with others varies more based on the location/setting I am in than the different cultural groups. When I am at work, I am very professional. I carry myself with confidence in what I am doing. I am professional and firm, but sensitive and understanding at the same time. In my neighborhood and community, I remain respectful, but I am much more relaxed and my language may be less proper. Because of the culture of my family, I may appear to be much less sensitive, respectful, or understanding as I am very aware and comfortable with their boundaries. I also know that in a family such as mine, one must be loud and direct in order to be heard (hence the Italian heritage). I find the most important way of communication in all areas of my life is to be aware and sensitive to my surroundings, observing and listening to their communication culture.
Rebecca,
ReplyDeleteCommunicating with our family, we all feel the most relaxed and comfortable. Therefore, we do not have to be careful of the way we communicate. As professionals we have to be sensitive, respectful, and become an active listener. This way of communication is expected. Sometimes, the best way to communicate is to listen and observe because this helps me to know exactly which communicating skill I will need to use at that particular moment.
Hi Rebecca. YOu make an excellent point about location. Like you, I also alter my communication approach based on the environment and company that I keep. If we communicated the same way towards different groups and in different environments I believe that many more miscommunications and communication issues would be experienced.
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